Who Are You Looking For? Part 2 in Sixty and Dating Series

What do you want in a relationship partner? was the question I was asked today by an eHarmony match. Great question and one I've been pondering and journaling about for months now. I put away my long, long list and started to focus on the essentials.
Then I responded:
" Definitely a friend first, someone to share laughs with, who knows that we're partners in wonderful ways that keep unfolding and that I'm there for him and he for me. Someone who enjoys getting to know me and is warmed and excited by my touch as I am by his. Someone who lights up inside when I'm around. Someone who is true to himself and is a good man, not talking perfection here. He has the courage and caring to share what is on his mind and in his heart, and he knows I may not always understand or agree, but I'll accept that's what is true for him right then. Also someone I can speak honestly with, and grow with as I bet he will be a good mirror for me. A sense of humor about learning and growing in relationship is important. We may have some different interests and I'd love for him to pursue his as he wants. Be responsible for taking good care of himself physically, financially, spiritually and I'd support him the best I could to do that."

I'm going to keep this as reference point as I continue on. So what are you looking for in your relationship partner?