Why do on-line dating?

I keep asking myself this question. This process is rather humbling as I go through eHarmony and OKcupid. Still I keep coming back to the point of encouraging myself to just practice. This is lab. Be myself, send the Light out ahead, be genuine, and enjoy as much as possible meeting or at least viewing men from all over the world.
I feel for the guys I say thanks, but no thanks too. Most of them are genuinely hoping to find a woman to love and be loved by. It truly is a gift and a blessing to have someone who's there for you. Sure there are trade-offs, and yet it is precious to be able to share with someone when you get home. To have someone to cheer for and be cheered by as we walk through life.
Finally I come back to remember who is really in charge here--think upstairs, way upstairs--God or Spirit, and then I relax. So for now, I'll keep going to the lab, and enjoy what's being presented and the time I'm being given to love and enjoy my own company too.